RR: riding as mental therapy

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Tuesday was a hell-day at work for me. By the time I left work to drive to
Betasso, I was so filled with stress and frustration that I'm sure I had a
visible cloud of purple and black energy surrounding me. I had *had* it. I
needed to get out of there before I hurt something or someone.

I got the last real parking space (people creatively "discover" alternate
spaces all the time) and saddled up. Betasso is a 3.5 mile loop of smooth,
twisty singletrack. Mountain bikers follow the arrows; right now, it's
counter clockwise, starting and ending on downhills.

This was the third time I'd come to Betasso planning to do three laps. The
first time, mechanical issues cut me down to one miserable lap. The second
time, a storm came in during the second lap. Tuesday, though, the sun shone
bright, the clouds were on vacation, and I could tell it would be a great day
to ride.

Hesitation marked the beginning of my first lap; my body and mind were still
contorted with the stress of the day, and I braked hard before every water
dip, sharp turn, and other perceived obstacles. I fought the bike and the
terrain rather than working with it. I stopped once for just a second or two,
to let a rider by, but otherwise cleaned it.

I loosened up by the second lap, got in a rhythm, felt pretty good. A guy
following me complimented me on my steady pace through a climb before moving
on past me. I took the downhills and the turns faster; in fact, I lost
traction turning through some coarse sand, but I managed to keep it together.
No dabs, no stops, just a nice, solid ride.

The third lap, it all came together. Rather than grabbing the brakes before
water dips, I slid my butt back behind the seat and kept my body low. This
good behavior was rewarded; ordinarily, my body flies up a bit over these, but
on that lap, I stayed in control and close to the bike. I took the turns and
descents faster than I ever have before. For the first time ever, I felt the
sweet sensation of leaning through the curves at a bit of speed, trusting my
skills to see me through. Yes, the climbs were noticably more difficult on
this third lap, but that just made the top of every rise a sweet victory to be
treasured. My only dab was caused by the sight of a surprisingly
light-colored deer; I slowed down so much to glimpse her through the trees
that I had to put a foot out to keep from tipping over.

Only one thing marred my final lap: a guy who kept riding my tail without passing.
In the quarter-mile or so before the toughest climb of the loop, he had plenty
of opportunities to pass or speak up, but he didn't say a word, instead opting
to pant along behind me. I picked up the pace a bit to give myself room
during the climb, but that didn't work; shortly after the start of the climb,
I realized he'd glued himself to my rear wheel. My line weaves around quite
a bit on this section, so his dedication to my bumper had me a bit nervous.
Eventually, I heard a slight commotion and some mild cursing -- I had to watch
my line, so I didn't look back. Swooped down some fun turns, and sure enough,
approaching the next climb, the ass-hugger is back. "Could you *please* just
pass me?" I finally ask; he says, "Yeah; I'm sorry," and during a section wide
enough for four to ride abreast, he finally rides past me, whereupon he
immediately disappears into the distance. Fine. After my ride, I spoke to a
woman who'd been walking with a friend and their dogs; on the final descent,
he didn't bother braking at all as he flew by them, no word of warning and
nearly clipping one of the dogs. Nice.

In summary, it was a great, much-needed ride. I finally did three laps (and would
have gone for four had dusk not been approaching); I had some skill/confidence
break-throughs; I worked out some angry energy and came home in a much better
mood than I'd had when I left the office. It was a Good Ride.

--
monique

"Get a bicycle. You will not regret it, if you live."
-- Mark Twain
 
Monique Y. Mudama said:
Tuesday was a hell-day at work for me. By the time I left work to drive to
Betasso, ... mood than I'd had when I left the office. It was a Good Ride.

--
monique

"Get a bicycle. You will not regret it, if you live."
-- Mark Twain
Sounds like a blast!

any chance the 'ass-hugger' was just enjoying the view? It's an inexusable affront to female riders ;-) but I can't say I wouldn't slow down for a long look at a nice **** :p

Riding you up a climb is rude though.

Glad you had fun.

Later,
MK
 
On 2004-09-02, mark_kendrick penned:
>
> Monique Y. Mudama Wrote:
>> Tuesday was a hell-day at work for me. By the time I left work to drive to
>> Betasso, ... mood than I'd had when I left the office. It was a Good Ride.
>>

>
> any chance the 'ass-hugger' was just enjoying the view? It's an inexusable
> affront to female riders ;-) but I can't say I wouldn't slow down for a long
> look at a nice **** :p


I honestly don't know. What I do know is that I had a guy on the second lap
follow me up a climb. He spoke up so I knew he was there, we chatted a bit, I
asked if he wanted to pass and he said he was fine, and -- most importantly --
he kept enough distance on the climb that I didn't feel crowded. This even
though the climb involved was a lot narrower, with a steep drop-off.

I think it comes down to the fact that the second-lap follower gave me the
impression, in various ways, that he was both courteous and competent. The
third-lap follower gave me the impression that he was not concerned with my
comfort level and not competent enough to be riding that close to me. My
conversation with the hikers afterwards only strengthens that impression.

> Riding you up a climb is rude though.


*nod* -- it's not like it's a race or anything. To be honest, I suspect he
had no idea that this sort of behavior could be construed as annoying. I
probably should have said something, but I was having such a nice ride and I
didn't want to get into it ... Maybe he thought he was drafting?

> Glad you had fun.


Thanks =)

--
monique

"Get a bicycle. You will not regret it, if you live."
-- Mark Twain
 
Monique,

What part of the country are you in?

The two good riding areas here are pron to lap riding .. Oklahoma is known for the open plains so the few hils we have must crossed several times to get a good ride in.

L8r,
MK
 
On 2004-09-02, mark_kendrick penned:
>
> Monique,
>
> What part of the country are you in?
>
> The two good riding areas here are pron to lap riding .. Oklahoma is known
> for the open plains so the few hils we have must crossed several times to
> get a good ride in.
>


Colorado. Most rides I do don't involve laps.

Riding three laps at Betasso is cool, as when I started riding last year it
took me twice as long: I was much slower, I had to stop often, and I walked
good chunks of the climbs.

--
monique

"Get a bicycle. You will not regret it, if you live."
-- Mark Twain
 
"Monique Y. Mudama" <[email protected]> wrote in message news:<[email protected]>...
> Tuesday was a hell-day at work for me. By the time I left work to drive to
> Betasso, I was so filled with stress and frustration that I'm sure I had a
> visible cloud of purple and black energy surrounding me. I had *had* it. I
> needed to get out of there before I hurt something or someone.
> In summary, it was a great, much-needed ride. I finally did three laps (and would
> have gone for four had dusk not been approaching); I had some skill/confidence
> break-throughs; I worked out some angry energy and came home in a much better
> mood than I'd had when I left the office. It was a Good Ride.


Glad you got a good ride in. But the creep who tailed you like that
deserved a good beating. That was totally inexcusable, especially when
he just rode your rear tire, didn't say anything, and didn't pass.
Probably not a bad idea to carry pepper spray, at least.

When I fall in behind a gal on a climb, if I can't pass, and if I
don't know her, I'll just stop and give her a nice long comfortable
lead. Only once was I so hypnotized by the good view that she had to
pull over and let me pass. A regrettable incident, but somewhat part
of the male dna. Even when I ride with females I know, I try to lead
or let them lead at least 15+ feet ahead so she won't have to worry
about what I'm watching. Watch where you want to go. (Sorni?) O wait,
that's another thread.

But back to your original point, there's nothing like a good butt kick
of a ride to screw your head back on straight. good stuff.

paladin
 
On 2004-09-03, Paladin penned:
>
> Glad you got a good ride in. But the creep who tailed you like that
> deserved a good beating. That was totally inexcusable, especially when he
> just rode your rear tire, didn't say anything, and didn't pass. Probably
> not a bad idea to carry pepper spray, at least.


A danger/creep aspect hadn't occured to me. I didn't get that kind of vibe
from him, although of course I could be terribly wrong. I just felt like it
was restricting my options and, well, it was just weird that he didn't say a
word. I probably should have said something myself. Maybe he didn't realize
how disconcerting it can be having someone ride up to you, kind of like having
a stranger fall in step with you on the street.

> When I fall in behind a gal on a climb, if I can't pass, and if I don't
> know her, I'll just stop and give her a nice long comfortable lead. Only
> once was I so hypnotized by the good view that she had to pull over and let
> me pass. A regrettable incident, but somewhat part of the male dna. Even
> when I ride with females I know, I try to lead or let them lead at least 15+
> feet ahead so she won't have to worry about what I'm watching. Watch where
> you want to go. (Sorni?) O wait, that's another thread.


Honestly, on a ride, I'm far more worried about my self-preservation than
about what someone's staring at. It's human nature to stare at what looks
good -- I just prefer that people have the courtesy not to do it in glaringly
obvious ways, and I try to return the favor. And it gives me a leg up on the
climb because they're distracted -- hey, I don't mind that, either. But when
a stranger goes from being nowhere near me to being right behind me, I
kind of figure that they're gonna try to keep that forward progress; anything
else is just weird.

It would be a shame if I expected a guy to exert himself more, or to break his
rhythm, just so that it didn't seem like he might be staring at me. Just
don't hang so close that it feels like I'm going to crash into you if I slow
my pace a hair!

> But back to your original point, there's nothing like a good butt kick of a
> ride to screw your head back on straight. good stuff.


Yessir, that is true. Had another one today -- shorter but with a longer
steep. First time I've made the whole climb without stopping. And much more
speed than I'm used to on the downhill. Progress is good =)

--
monique

"Get a bicycle. You will not regret it, if you live."
-- Mark Twain