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  1. Peter Aitken said:


    The ceremonies are indeed interesting to watch. One thing stood out,
    however - in all the hundreds of elegantly dressed church dignitaries,
    cardinlals, bishops, pall bearers, officials, etc., there was not one single
    woman. It's a forceful reminder of how, despite all his work for human
    rights, JP II dragged the church back to the 19th century when it comes to
    woman's equality.

    I am glad someone finds them interesting. I find it all boring.

    But you are right about the women. I keep hearing people say he did great
    things, but I am wondering what on earth those great deeds are. None of them
    involved taking the church out of the dark ages. The RC church is facing a
    major problem in North America, a drastic shortage of priests. This pope has
    done nothing to allow women into the priesthood or to get rid of that
    meaningless requirement for celibacy that has done little more than attract men
    with an obviously perverse view of sex into the priesthood,

  2. "Dave Smith" <[email hidden]> wrote

    Quoted message said:

    Peter Aitken wrote:

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    The ceremonies are indeed interesting to watch. One thing stood out,
    however - in all the hundreds of elegantly dressed church dignitaries,
    cardinlals, bishops, pall bearers, officials, etc., there was not one
    single
    woman. It's a forceful reminder of how, despite all his work for human
    rights, JP II dragged the church back to the 19th century when it comes
    to woman's equality.

    Quoted message said:

    But you are right about the women. I keep hearing people say he did great
    things, but I am wondering what on earth those great deeds are. None of
    them
    involved taking the church out of the dark ages. The RC church is facing
    a
    major problem in North America, a drastic shortage of priests. This pope
    has
    done nothing to allow women into the priesthood or to get rid of that
    meaningless requirement for celibacy that has done little more than
    attract men
    with an obviously perverse view of sex into the priesthood,

    Wow. You said what I've thought all along. They set up this weird
    lifestyle,
    then they are shocked it attracted men who are trying to run away from their
    urges or whatever. Then, why women accept being second class citizens
    in their own church, I don't know. Clean the bathrooms, cook the food, but
    be a priest??? Oh no. I was thinking of the priest shortage, how much
    would that help if women could be a real part of the church in that
    capacity?

    Anyway.

    nancy

  3. Dave Smith said:
    Peter Aitken said:


    The ceremonies are indeed interesting to watch. One thing stood


    out,

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    however - in all the hundreds of elegantly dressed church


    dignitaries,

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    cardinlals, bishops, pall bearers, officials, etc., there was not


    one single

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    woman. It's a forceful reminder of how, despite all his work for


    human

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    rights, JP II dragged the church back to the 19th century when it


    comes to

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    woman's equality.

    I am glad someone finds them interesting. I find it all boring.

    But you are right about the women. I keep hearing people say he did


    great

    Quoted message said:

    things, but I am wondering what on earth those great deeds are. None


    of them

    Quoted message said:

    involved taking the church out of the dark ages. The RC church is


    facing a

    Quoted message said:

    major problem in North America, a drastic shortage of priests. This


    pope has

    Quoted message said:

    done nothing to allow women into the priesthood or to get rid of that
    meaningless requirement for celibacy that has done little more than


    attract men

    Quoted message said:

    with an obviously perverse view of sex into the priesthood,

    It would be nice if the new Pope had at least a toe in
    reality...population control is perhaps the most serious issue in the
    world today, and stem-cell research is one of the most vital medical
    developments in this century. Both these issues need to be
    re-addressed in a viable way by the Catholic Church.

    N.


  4. Quoted message said:

    From: damsel

    Quoted message said:

    We've got lots of good WebTVers in this NG.
    It's just the 10 year olds who ruin it for
    everyone else.

    Thank you for saying this! Sometimes I cringe when I see a fully loaded
    with HTML post - complete with music! Sigh.......here comes the webtv
    bashing!

  5. (DayDreamer) said:
    Quoted message said:

    From: damsel

    Quoted message said:

    We've got lots of good WebTVers in this NG.
    It's just the 10 year olds who ruin it for
    everyone else.

    Thank you for saying this! Sometimes I cringe when I see a fully loaded
    with HTML post - complete with music! Sigh.......here comes the webtv
    bashing!

    You're very welcome. I hate to see innocent, intelligent people lumped in
    with idiots. 🙂

    Carol
    --
    Coming at you live, from beautiful Lake Woebegon

  6. Nancy Young said:


    Wow. You said what I've thought all along. They set up this weird
    lifestyle,
    then they are shocked it attracted men who are trying to run away from their
    urges or whatever. Then, why women accept being second class citizens
    in their own church, I don't know. Clean the bathrooms, cook the food, but
    be a priest??? Oh no. I was thinking of the priest shortage, how much
    would that help if women could be a real part of the church in that
    capacity?

    Lets just say that I have no time for women who complain about the patriarchy of
    the church. If they belong to a church that treats them like a second class
    citizen then that is exactly the type of treatment they deserve. I was listening
    to comments on the radio (CBC) yesterday and was surprised that male callers
    (during the time I was listening) were down on the church for keeping women out
    of the priesthood, but the women callers had no problem with it. One said that
    it just wouldn't be her church if they allowed women to be priest. Another said
    that women do have equal power in the church and that allowing women to be
    priests would not give them any more power than they already have. Well gee. if
    you aren't a priest you can't be a bishop, an archbishop, a cardinal or pope.
    You can't be anything. You are shut out.
    Strangely, women go to church more than men.

  7. Quoted message said:

    It would be nice if the new Pope had at least a toe in
    reality...population control is perhaps the most serious issue in the
    world today, and stem-cell research is one of the most vital medical
    developments in this century. Both these issues need to be
    re-addressed in a viable way by the Catholic Church.

    Indeed. Unfortunately, religion and reality are mutually incompatible. What
    troubles me most is the moral superiority that people assume with religion.
    I have never seen that as a strong correlation.

  8. "Dave Smith" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Nancy Young said:


    Wow. You said what I've thought all along. They set up this weird
    lifestyle,
    then they are shocked it attracted men who are trying to run away from
    their
    urges or whatever. Then, why women accept being second class citizens
    in their own church, I don't know. Clean the bathrooms, cook the food,
    but
    be a priest??? Oh no. I was thinking of the priest shortage, how much
    would that help if women could be a real part of the church in that
    capacity?

    Lets just say that I have no time for women who complain about the
    patriarchy of
    the church. If they belong to a church that treats them like a second
    class
    citizen then that is exactly the type of treatment they deserve. I was
    listening
    to comments on the radio (CBC) yesterday and was surprised that male
    callers
    (during the time I was listening) were down on the church for keeping
    women out
    of the priesthood, but the women callers had no problem with it. One said
    that
    it just wouldn't be her church if they allowed women to be priest. Another
    said
    that women do have equal power in the church and that allowing women to be
    priests would not give them any more power than they already have. Well
    gee. if
    you aren't a priest you can't be a bishop, an archbishop, a cardinal or
    pope.
    You can't be anything. You are shut out.
    Strangely, women go to church more than men.

    I'm one of those women who go to church and have no problem with the status
    quo -- oh, correction, I'm all for married priests such as the Eastern Rites
    Catholics have.
    If women were to be ordained (which is not likely to happen in my lifetime
    or that of my daughter) I'd have no problem with it, but lack of female
    ordination is not something that keeps me up nights.

    Gabby

  9. Gabby said:

    I'm one of those women who go to church and have no problem with the status
    quo -- oh, correction, I'm all for married priests such as the Eastern Rites
    Catholics have.
    If women were to be ordained (which is not likely to happen in my lifetime
    or that of my daughter) I'd have no problem with it, but lack of female
    ordination is not something that keeps me up nights.

    So you have no problem with your church deeming you to be unworthy of a position
    due to your gender?

  10. Dave Smith said:


    Lets just say that I have no time for women who complain about the
    patriarchy of the church. If they belong to a church that treats
    them like a second class citizen then that is exactly the type of
    treatment they deserve.

    I'm not sure that Roman Catholic women are second class. The Church
    allows, nay, encourages, them to have sex lives, while telling the
    'best and brightest' of the men they can't.

    Quoted message said:

    [snip] One [woman] said that
    it just wouldn't be her church if they allowed women to be priest.

    Reasoned argument doesn't enter into religious discussion. "It just
    .....", in other words an assertion of belief, is sufficient.

    Quoted message said:

    Another said that women do have equal power in the church and that
    allowing women to be priests would not give them any more power than
    they already have. [snip]

    See above. Statements contrary to fact are common from the religious.
    -aem

  11. Dave Smith said:


    But you are right about the women. I keep hearing people say he did great
    things, but I am wondering what on earth those great deeds are. None of them
    involved taking the church out of the dark ages.

    Repudiation of antisemitism.

    --
    Dan Goodman
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    John Arbuthnot (1667-1735), Scottish writer, physician.

  12. "aem" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Dave Smith said:


    Lets just say that I have no time for women who complain about the
    patriarchy of the church. If they belong to a church that treats
    them like a second class citizen then that is exactly the type of
    treatment they deserve.

    I'm not sure that Roman Catholic women are second class. The Church
    allows, nay, encourages, them to have sex lives, while telling the
    'best and brightest' of the men they can't.

    Nay, the church does not encourage women to have sex lives. It encourages
    them to have babies. A "sex life" implies that enjoyment is part of the
    deal.

    --
    Peter Aitken

    Remove the [censored] from my email address before using.

  13. Peter Aitken said:


    Quoted message said:


    Lets just say that I have no time for women who complain about the
    patriarchy of
    the church. If they belong to a church that treats them like a second
    class
    citizen then that is exactly the type of treatment they deserve.

    That's a truly bizarre attitude. Taken to its logical conclusion it would
    say that no one can point out flaws in an organization and try to change it
    for the better. It's either get out or shut up. Do you really believe that?
    I have respect for the woman for stay with the church they love, despite its
    flaws, and try to change it for the better.

    It is a church, one of many (Christian) denomination, not a country. If they
    feel that the church is too patriarchal then they should withdraw. How long do
    you think that a church led by a supposedly celibate clergy would survive if
    their most active supporters walked out on them?

    I suppose they could try to effect change from within, but all the top positions
    are males.

  14. aem said:

    If they don't enjoy it, the hubby is to blame, not the church. Even I
    will not accuse the Roman church of telling women not to enjoy sex.
    That's the Baptists.... <g> -aem

    Baptists are opposed to having sex in a standing position.

    It might lead to dancing.

  15. That's precious! I'm a Southern Baptist, now Episcopalian, and
    soon-to-be Roman Catholic. Sex in the Catholic church, from what I
    understand is for the creation of life, not for enjoyment. But what the
    hey, I'm sure there are many Catholics who enjoy sex and consider it a
    gift from God.

    Mary

    Dave Smith said:
    aem said:

    If they don't enjoy it, the hubby is to blame, not the church.


    Even I

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    will not accuse the Roman church of telling women not to enjoy sex.
    That's the Baptists.... <g> -aem

    Baptists are opposed to having sex in a standing position.

    It might lead to dancing.

  16. "Mash" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    That's precious! I'm a Southern Baptist, now Episcopalian, and
    soon-to-be Roman Catholic. Sex in the Catholic church, from what I
    understand is for the creation of life, not for enjoyment. But what the
    hey, I'm sure there are many Catholics who enjoy sex and consider it a
    gift from God.


    Considering that the church tells husbands to make sure their wives enjoy
    sex, indeed advises them to masturbate their wives to orgasm if they haven't
    reached that point during intercourse, I don't think anyone can honestly say
    that the Church doesn't want one to 'enjoy sex'.

    Gabby

  17. "Dave Smith" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Gabby said:

    I'm one of those women who go to church and have no problem with the
    status
    quo -- oh, correction, I'm all for married priests such as the Eastern
    Rites
    Catholics have.
    If women were to be ordained (which is not likely to happen in my
    lifetime
    or that of my daughter) I'd have no problem with it, but lack of female
    ordination is not something that keeps me up nights.

    So you have no problem with your church deeming you to be unworthy of a
    position
    due to your gender?

    I don't think the Church deems me, as a woman, 'unworthy' of ordination.
    The apostles were male and the priests have ever since been male. I don't
    have a problem with that. I do have a problem with the way the church
    treated married priests back in the 1100s and I wish they would change the
    discipline that calls for priests to be celibate. Those men deserve the
    right to share their lives with someone. Or some would say, have the right
    to be just as miserable as any other married man. <vbg>

    Gabby

  18. Mash said:

    I'm a Southern Baptist, now Episcopalian, and
    soon-to-be Roman Catholic.

    Sheesh, you poor lost [censored], whatsamatter... can't you find
    yourself... try an $8 mirror from Walmart.

    Sheldon

  19. "Dave Smith" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Gabby wrote:
    I do have a problem with the way the church
    treated married priests back in the 1100s and I wish they would change
    the
    discipline that calls for priests to be celibate. Those men deserve the
    right to share their lives with someone. Or some would say, have the
    right
    to be just as miserable as any other married man. <vbg>

    lol.
    As I see it, when you will accept as priests only those men who have taken
    a
    vow of celibacy, to make them give up their normal sexual urges, you end
    up
    only with people who have abnormal sexual urges.

    Years ago, kids started preparing for the priesthood at such a young age
    that they never really matured in their sexuality. I remember my brother
    being groomed at the age of 8 to go to college and be a priest. Luckily for
    him, and luckily for the priesthood, the people who were going to make that
    happen were old and died before anything could come of it -- he still gets
    mad when he talks about it.

    Today the men I meet who are preparing for the priesthood in Canada have
    already lived a life. They are usually more mature, much older (35-55),
    more experienced and know what they are giving up. Many people chose to be
    celibate for a variety of reasons. Sex is fun and makes life very
    interesting -- and while it's necessary to transmit life, it's not at all
    necessary for living.

    Gabby

  20. Gabby said:


    Quoted message said:

    As I see it, when you will accept as priests only those men who have taken
    a
    vow of celibacy, to make them give up their normal sexual urges, you end
    up
    only with people who have abnormal sexual urges.

    There is an incredible irony about a religion that preaches family values
    but
    whose leadership is a group of men who have given up hope of having a
    family.

    I think most would say that they have a very large family indeed.

    Probably. Yet another case of repeating something so often that people start to
    believe it. Family is family, not just a collection of people in your church.
    That is a different type of association, not family in the true sense. I just
    can't see someone counselling others on marriage and parenthood when that person
    has never and will never be married or a parent.

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