Re: HAVE IT YOUR WAY BARRY.

I am Barry's wife as of Sept 1, 2013. . . .this is what I posted on a cat forum in Jan. 2014
It's apparent that Barry has lived this freaky abnormal lifestyle for many years. . .Although he seemed as a "gentle" gifted man that I met in a Christian band in May 2012. . .it has a spooky dark side that he's very careful to not reveal & give every excuse under the sun to all his "secrets" . . .deviant sexual & criminal. ..His family NEVER told me anything. . ..town & church folks that knew him said, "He's a great guy" . .the ONLY person that gave a HINT that Barry was not right was his brother-in-law that one day took occasion when no other family members where around to ask me "What the hell are you doing with Barry? . .You're an educated woman" . . Barry had laid the groundwork to discredit this brother-in-law far in advance where I thought the comment was in retaliation to their differences. . .HOWEVER. . . .when I met his parents Thanksgiving Nov. 2013. .his mother only said, "Sherryl, looks like you & Barry are good for each other" . .. .then while we were in Florida April 2013 & Barry exhibited abnormal behaviors such as saying , "Cut off your cell phone. . FBI/CIA are tracking us. . & his fits of raging & next deserting me four times to sleep in the back of my truck on the streets with the homeless while he supposedly walked excessively(mainly at Ft. Lauderdale Beach) where he said he felt 'safe. . leaving with whatever money we had left. . .I honestly knew something was severely wrong! . . .I feared for him. . .yet at the fourth time of Barry returning to my slot with the homeless on the street . . I refused to trust him. . .he found a way back to Forest, Va. to my rental house on the horse farm & proceeded to "take over" the house & sow lies to my landlord that I was still down there because I was caught up in doing crack. (NOW I see on this forum that Barry has been freakly sexually active with woman years before I met him . . He told me he had "saved himself for the "right" woman LOL
. .I have emails that Barry sent me messages that he was inviting other women to live in my farm house rental & he would hold nothing against me. .I could come back (get that. .! to my own home . .I can come back) and live with all of them. . .instead I went to live with a girlfriend that worked at the Pentagon . . .to begin a new life & forget the crazy freaky rollercoaster he'd taken me on. . .But in May he got bite by a spider on the horse farm ended up in the Lynchburg General Hospital & they noticed his strange behaviors. . .he for the 1st time in his life got diagnosed bipolar II with schizophrenic tendencies by Dr. Randall Scott. ..Barry then emailed me that he had been diagnosed & was taking medications. . to please come home he'd done me wrong but now we knew the reason.. ..he was mentally ill. . .stupidly I returned thinking "well now it all makes sense" to "what I thought" was the gentle Christian man I'd fallen in love with. ..he took his meds all of one month & that was it. . .from there it was all lies, deceit, secrets, , demands. . him self-medicating with illegal drugs & me finding extremely strange videos he'd taken of himself & pics that had 'gay' behaviors depicted . . .he'd stay gone for extremely long hours saying he had worked all day. .this went on from July 2013 - October. ..& only brought home $200 with every excuse in the book . ..the man he worked for didn't pay him. . .etc. etc. . .Barry during that time was extremely irritable, raging over little things, vulgar, obscene, accusational of me & others I wanted to connect with as a couple. ..he demanded that as my husband he "manage" the money. . LOL . .my money teacher retirement/disability. . .he raged when I confronted him & stated, "NO ONE would control him". . .as things progressed into "freakyville" & Dr. Jekeyll Mr. Hyde.. .him having "biblical grandiose . .receiving messages from God that he was awaiting revelation on. seeing people. .hearing voices. ... I asked him to leave . . .he would rage & tell me the home was his.. . everything was his the car my truck.. .and I could get out .(he'd NEVER paid one month's rent nor utility bills nor was anything in "his' name. .yet he ALWAYS had pot to smoke, beer & cigs & who knows what else. . .he raged in public in fronrt of pastors . . .as well which put my teaching job at risk & my life at risk if he raged while driving. . . he assaulted me . . so NOW he's in jail!!! MY CHOICE! . . .his family never responded to my request for family intervention & I found txts on his cell between he & his sister who revealed to me that she is also bipolar yet takes her meds. .goes to counseling once a month. ..the txts said the following "she(me) better drop the Protective Order or Sherryl will go to jail" . .also I found texts where his sister said, "Barry. ..just pretend to take you meds & lie to her" . . .yet when I would look to his sister for help with him . .she'd agree that he had problems(she never allowed Barry to stay in her home long afraid to expose her two sons to his craziness) . .. .she also at one time offered to help me get him out. . .yet they both plotted against me? . . .. .It's one CrAzY family!!! & now a person that knew Barry 10 yrs ago wrote me to be careful Barry has a side we all love yet he has a very dark side .. .he's a prolific liar & enjoys pitting women against each other. . ..Well folks~! I'm getting off this freaky rollercoaster. . .and I'm not really convinced Barry is mentally ill because he turns it on & off at free will.. ..I now know he's dangerous, vicious, slick as glass. .a liar. .a sexual predator/freak. ..and his sister says there's nothing abnormal about his sexual exploits. . .He is in jail being locked down 24/7 & under video surveillance & probably on June 25, 2014 be court ordered to take meds, do psyche counseling & required drug testing. ..He should be intitutionalized for life! but don't believe the courts will go that far to protect the community. . .
.I think at the first chance he gets he will disappear as his sister has said he has done before & the family doesn't hear from him for many years. ..so BE IT~!. He'll probably end up back in Ft. Lauderdale mingling with the infestation of gays that live there. . .. . . .I just hope that this record of his nature will be found by the next woman that he try's to con. . If I'd known to google his name . .which believe me. I WILL DO if I ever consider getting in a relationship again!!! . .I would have seen this forum & known he was a freak & a liar. . .if you have any more information before his court date please share. . .I truly wish he would be incarcerated for a long time to prevent him from using women again. . ..I don't give a damn if he is mentally ill! .. he's still making choices to con, manipulate & take people (not just women) for anything he can get. . .we all make choices . ..His are deplorable. . .sick.. .he needs to lie in the bed he made & suffer consequences. . .

I've cut & pasted my Jan 2014 posting on "catbanter"forum:

Quoted message said:

wheat germ said:

Organ Freak said:

You're both crossposting [censored].

oh that's real pretty OF

Barry Parrish was FINALLY diagnosed manic bipolar sczo May 13, 2013. > .He conned me into marrying him. ..he has financially ruined me. . now > I'm finding these whacked messages on internet. .wish I'd check before > marriage. . what he said about getting into a woman's mind first and > then getting the pie is sooo correct. . he's a con artist,scam. ..he's > dangerous. . he's a sexual pervert. . . constantly making lude videos of > himself jacking off. .sucking wind with his anus, etc . . . .and all the > time proclaiming to be a preacher & a prophet. . .I post this today Jan > 17, 2014 in hopes that some future woman that connects with Barry > Franklin Parrish of Commerce St., Lynchburg. . will see this & run the > other way. .. .he's very intelligent, musically gifted & cunning. . > .BEWARE!!!!! He will seem very giving & loving at first. ..then all hell > breaks loose once he has gotten into your heart & mind. .. he's vicious. > he care for no one but himself. . VERY narcissistic. .. .HE IS MENTALLY > ILL. . . IT IS NOW DOCUMENTED BY Dr. Randall Scott & Va. Baptist Mental > Hospital. . yet he skirts under the radar of being institutionalized > with his handsome womanizing ways & biblical lingo. . .he is a farce. .. > .I'm NOW finding out his family has seen him live this way for 26 yrs. . > .they are done helping him.. .he can't even stay overnight with them in > most cases. . .he will forever be a homeless hermit because of his > illness (and he wants YOU to be homeless too. ..makes him comfortable & > controlling) & his rejection of staying on meds & getting counseling. He > is what he is. ..do not be fooled . . I have loved him for 2 yrs & you > wouldn't believe the stuff I've seen(dressing in women's clothes. > .fraternizing with gay people in Ft. Lauderdale while leaving me(his > wife) on the street homeless no money & in danger) and NOW I have > confirmation that he is doing crack per Joe of Cash's towing. . long > story🙂. . ... I had him ECO'd Sat. Jan. 11th, 2014. . they wouldn't > keep him because he's not suicidal. . something really wrong with our > system. . .he will rage on me & strangers in public when in a manic > episode or he doesn't get his way. .. .he is street wise how to survive > with hardly nothing. . It's so SAD. . .so much potential. .yet so sick. > .and now I believe he chooses to stay this way. .Just everybody! > Especially women. . young & old!. ..BE WISE! RUN AS HARD AS YOU CAN THE > OTHER WAY. .DON'T BE TAKEN IN BY HIS CHARMING WAYS. . .HE IS A > MONSTER!!! . . > .his wife. .. fixin to get an marriage annulment based on mental > illness. . . . I would like to hear from anyone else that has gone thru > this experience with Barry. . .I feel their are more people. . . > Be Safe. . .Safe from Barry!

NOTE:. . of course I do now realize that some of these people such as DONNA? are just a freaky. .messed up as Barry is. ..in Feb 2014 txts between Barry & his sister she is encouraging him to meet new people. . forget his wife. (Barry was homeless due to the fact I'd gotten sheriff's dept involved & an EPO .& his family will NOT let Barry live with them. . .nor even visit for an extended time). . ..and he responds that he's already been seeing several girls. ..which makes sense since he only spent 3 nights at the Salvation ARmy Hope Center . .that's all they had on their books FEb 3rd 5th & 8th. He insisted he was there EVERY night for a month . ...don't know who he thinks he's fooling . . and he gets VERY angry when you catch him in his lies & deceit. . LOL . . .well now he can use that criminal lying deceitful mind in jail. . . .it may benefit him there you think? He'll be in his own element. ..he should do quite well . ... . I've heard Barry was a super-freak under the sheets. Is that true? [censored]