There is a lot of me in this thread. I'm a 45 year old cross trainer doing (in order of importance) Cycling, Weights, Yoga, Combat, Boxing and Running. So where do I start.
CYCLING: Love it and its my best cardio workout and it has little effect on my injurys. Yeh, if you aren't into winning national titles, then a couple of kilos somewhere else on your body isn't going to hurt.
WEIGHTS: I switched from pure weight lifting to what I'd call functional strength, this been the creation of useable strength. I do roughly 2 sessions of light weight high reps to 1 session of normal weights. Also I tack on spot exercies after a session of something else (like boxing), for example wrist exercises or lower back, wherever I am currently weakest.
YOGA: I suck at yoga and thats why its important that I do it. To have a fully functional body, you need to have all functions working. Consists of Balance, Flexibility and a different type of strength to weights. I have to say that the mental attitude in yoga has definently helped my riding.
COMBAT: Kinda part way between yoga and boxing. Includes cooridination which is as bad as my spelling.
BOXING: The upper body equivilent of running. Hit pads not people.
RUNNING: The sporting passion of my youth, until my knees f***ed in my mid thirtys. A bit better now days, so I run once a week. I different kind of leg workout to cycling.
To me the key word above is "functional" - "functional strength", "functional fitness", "functional mind set".
In regards to the comment about female taste in males, different females have different tastes in males. Genetics still contibute to their decisions and they look for a combination of things including the ability to provide, the ability to protect, however your personality is way up there. Having confidence (as distinct from ego) for example is something that is often appreciated.
Anyway Carrera, its your choice, but you could always tone down the weights instead of simply dropping them.