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  1. "Harpie" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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    I might point out that the kids who committed the worst high school


    massacre

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    in American history (Columbine High School in Jefferson County, Colorado) both came from families
    in which their parents are still married. If the original poster is saying that divorce causes
    these things, what does it


    say

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    when it's the kids in "Unbroken" homes who commit the crimes? (tongue planted firmly in cheek
    there, so relax!)

    As soon as a kid displays any type of anti-social behavior, medicate them!

    Dashii

  2. "Kurgan Gringioni" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    "Nick Burns" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    "Kurgan Gringioni" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    "Nick Burns" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    >Credibility is an issue here.

    Dumbass -

    When people get divorced, suddenly they're not credible?

    WRT relationships? Yes.

    So . . .

    Everyone who has had a divorce (more than 50% of our fellow citizens will eventually get one) has
    no credibility WRT to relationships.

    50% of our fellow citizens will NOT eventually get a divorce - unless the current trends
    significantly change. Please show me a study that implies 50
    % of Americans will divorce.

    Scott-

  3. "Kurgan Gringioni" <[email hidden]> wrote in message

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    So . . .

    Everyone who has had a divorce (more than 50% of our fellow citizens will eventually get one) has
    no credibility WRT to relationships.

    What planet are you from? Stating "credibility is an issue" wrt a couple getting divorced when that
    same couple plans to be comitted to a different kind of relationship seems reasonable to me. I did
    not say that it indicates "no credibility" and I did not say it is relavant beyond the original to
    getting divorced.

    But you have to play a stupid game where you first put words in my mouth and then try to flame me
    based on your words and based on the relavance to cycling.

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    And . . .

    WTF does Armstrong's credibility on relationships have to do with any of


    us?

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    or bike racing?

    "Pot, I would like you to meet my dear friend, the kettle".

    DSMF

  4. Oops, sorry, I thought I read that these were kids who had tons of unsupervised time on their hand
    coz parents were never around and their parents didn't know what they were doing. Oops, maybe that
    was the case and not divorce. I suppose there are as many latchkeys and fell-thru-the-cracks
    I-thought-you-knew-where-he-was's in marrieds these days as in divorce. --JP

  5. "Dashi Toshii" <[email hidden]> wrote in message news:<[email hidden]>...

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    "Harpie" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    I might point out that the kids who committed the worst high school


    massacre

    Quoted message said:

    in American history (Columbine High School in Jefferson County, Colorado) both came from
    families in which their parents are still married. If the original poster is saying that divorce
    causes these things, what does it


    say

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    when it's the kids in "Unbroken" homes who commit the crimes? (tongue planted firmly in cheek
    there, so relax!)

    As soon as a kid displays any type of anti-social behavior, medicate them!

    Nah. Medicate Potter. Thorazine should do the trick.

    Anti-social kids? They go on to become bike racers.

    -RJ

  6. "Scott Raymond" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    So . . .

    Everyone who has had a divorce (more than 50% of our fellow citizens will eventually get one)
    has no credibility WRT to relationships.

    50% of our fellow citizens will NOT eventually get a divorce - unless the current trends
    significantly change. Please show me a study that implies


    50

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    % of Americans will divorce.

    from: divorcewizards.comdivorcestats.html

    Recent statistics suggest that 50% of all marriages will end in divorce.

    <snip

  7. "Kurgan Gringioni" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    "Scott Raymond" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    So . . .

    Everyone who has had a divorce (more than 50% of our fellow citizens


    will

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    eventually get one) has no credibility WRT to relationships.

    50% of our fellow citizens will NOT eventually get a divorce - unless


    the

    Quoted message said:
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    current trends significantly change. Please show me a study that


    implies

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    50

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    % of Americans will divorce.

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    from: divorcewizards.comdivorcestats.html

    Recent statistics suggest that 50% of all marriages will end in divorce.

    lol

    Dashii

  8. "Ronaldo Jeremiah" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    "Dashi Toshii" <[email hidden]> wrote in message


    news:<[email hidden]>...

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    "Harpie" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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    I might point out that the kids who committed the worst high school


    massacre

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    in American history (Columbine High School in Jefferson County,


    Colorado)

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    both came from families in which their parents are still married. If


    the

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    original poster is saying that divorce causes these things, what does


    it

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    say

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    when it's the kids in "Unbroken" homes who commit the crimes? (tongue planted firmly in cheek
    there, so relax!)

    As soon as a kid displays any type of anti-social behavior, medicate


    them!

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Nah. Medicate Potter. Thorazine should do the trick.

    Double dose.

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    Anti-social kids? They go on to become bike racers.

    Yeah you're right.

    Dashii

    Quoted message said:


    -RJ

  9. Robert Chung said:
    Jeff Jones said:

    It's official: cyclingnews.comnews

    Armstrong: "The craziest thing is, we're closer now and better friends than ever before."

    That's [censored]. Either he is afraid the divorce may tarnish his image (which means lower
    endorsement $$) or a divorce tactic. Lull them into a false sense of security, then when the
    proceedings commence it gets ugly.

    G

  10. "Kurgan Gringioni" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    50% of our fellow citizens will NOT eventually get a divorce - unless


    the

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    current trends significantly change. Please show me a study that


    implies

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    50

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    % of Americans will divorce.


    and you are not ... anyone familar with statistics can show any number they want by adjusting
    the sample ... also read the word "suggest" that marrages will end in divorce ... not that they
    have ended, therefore it's a projection based on trends, not fact ... you are what you speak in
    this instance.

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    from: divorcewizards.comdivorcestats.html

    Recent statistics suggest that 50% of all marriages will end in divorce.

    <snip

  11. Jeff Jones' jeff@cyclingnews-punt-com said:

    It's official: cyclingnews.comnews

    Now y'all can start arguing about how it will affect the 2004 Tour.

    My opinion, which is worth far less than &euro;0.02: I think it could actually help Lance by taking
    some of the stress off him.

    You obviously haven't been through a divorce.

  12. smiles said:

    "Kurgan Gringioni" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    50% of our fellow citizens will NOT eventually get a divorce - unless the current trends
    significantly change. Please show me a study that implies 50 % of Americans will divorce.


    Quoted message said:


    and you are not ... anyone familar with statistics can show any number they want by adjusting the
    sample ... also read the word "suggest" that marrages will end in divorce ... not that they have
    ended, therefore it's a projection based on trends, not fact ... you are what you speak in this
    instance.

    Quoted message said:


    from: divorcewizards.comdivorcestats.html

    Recent statistics suggest that 50% of all marriages will end in divorce.

    <snip>

    Well then, what proportion of marriages do you think will end in divorce or dissolution?

  13. "Khoomei" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    Jeff Jones' jeff@cyclingnews-punt-com said:

    It's official: cyclingnews.comnews

    Now y'all can start arguing about how it will affect the 2004 Tour.

    My opinion, which is worth far less than &euro;0.02: I think it could actually help Lance by
    taking some of the stress off him.

    You obviously haven't been through a divorce.


    I told you my opinion was worthless!

    Jeff

  14. "GregR" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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    Robert Chung said:
    Jeff Jones said:

    It's official:


    cyclingnews.comnews

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    Quoted message said:


    Armstrong: "The craziest thing is, we're closer now and better friends than ever before."

    That's [censored]. Either he is afraid the divorce may tarnish his image (which means lower
    endorsement $$) or a divorce tactic. Lull them into a false sense of security, then when the
    proceedings commence it gets ugly.

    Nah he'll be more popular than ever.

    Dashii

  15. "Kurgan Gringioni" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    "Scott Raymond" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    So . . .

    Everyone who has had a divorce (more than 50% of our fellow citizens


    will

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    eventually get one) has no credibility WRT to relationships.

    50% of our fellow citizens will NOT eventually get a divorce - unless


    the

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    current trends significantly change. Please show me a study that


    implies

    Quoted message said:

    50

    Quoted message said:

    % of Americans will divorce.

    Quoted message said:


    from: divorcewizards.comdivorcestats.html

    Recent statistics suggest that 50% of all marriages will end in divorce.

    You should Google less and apply reason more. I hardly consider www.divorcewizards.com a good place
    to get an unbiased perspective on divorce data. Unless you've got a reading comprehension problem, I
    fail to understand your claim that they conducted a study. Who did it? When was it done? Where is
    the data? Oh... I see, you don't know - and that's understandable, because it doesn't exist (for
    www.divorcewizards.com, that
    is). Could it be that www.divorcewizards.com want their clients to feel a bit more comfortable about
    going through a divorce? And you know what they say, misery loves company.

    I suggest you take a look at cdc.govdivorce.htm for some trustworthy
    data... and then draw your own conclusions. Of course, if you conclude that because the divorce rate
    (4.0 per thousand) is roughly
    47.6% of the marriage rate (8.4 per thousand), 47.6% of all married people will divorce, you'd be a
    bigger "Dumbass" (is that copyrighted or trademarked?) than I originally thought. I leave it as
    an exercise for you to identify the fallacy of such reasoning.

    Try again, Henry. But thanks for the laugh - you are entertaining. Then again, so are clowns.

    Scott-

  16. Scott Raymond said:
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    Recent statistics suggest that 50% of all marriages will end in divorce.

    You should Google less and apply reason more. I hardly consider www.divorcewizards.com a good
    place to get an unbiased perspective on divorce data. Unless you've got a reading comprehension
    problem, I fail to understand your claim that they conducted a study. Who did it? When was it
    done? Where is the data? Oh... I see, you don't know - and that's understandable, because it
    doesn't exist (for www.divorcewizards.com, that is). Could it be that www.divorcewizards.com want
    their clients to feel a bit more comfortable about going through a divorce? And you know what they
    say, misery loves company.

    I suggest you take a look at cdc.govdivorce.htm for some trustworthy
    data... and then draw your own conclusions. Of course, if you conclude that because the divorce
    rate (4.0 per thousand) is roughly
    47.6% of the marriage rate (8.4 per thousand), 47.6% of all married people will divorce, you'd be
    a bigger "Dumbass" (is that copyrighted or trademarked?) than I originally thought. I leave it
    as an exercise for you to identify the fallacy of such reasoning.

    Try again, Henry. But thanks for the laugh - you are entertaining. Then again, so are clowns.

    Try again, Scott. No serious demographer calculates the lifetime divorce probability as you did, so
    that was a bogus straw man argument. Since you cite data from the NCHS, perhaps you would trust
    their estimates. For various reasons, the NCHS no longer does projections of the divorce rate but
    the last time they did do them (about 10 years ago) they projected that unless (then) current trends
    changed, half of first marriages would end in divorce. Check out the CPR P23 reports from about 10
    years ago if you don't believe me.

    That projection, as well as all the projections I've seen since then, are based on synthetic cohort
    calculations, not cross-sectional ones. Nuptiality and marital dissolution are central topics in the
    study of family structure so researchers spend a lot of time calculating the probability of marital
    dissolution. The technique is really no more complicated than the one used for life tables, and
    insurance companies do that pretty routinely. Every projection I've seen (and I'm betting I've seen
    a lot more of them than you) gives estimates of the probability that first marriages in the US
    during the 1990's would end in divorce ranging from about 45% up to about 60%.

  17. "Robert Chung" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Scott Raymond said:
    Quoted message said:


    Recent statistics suggest that 50% of all marriages will end in divorce.

    You should Google less and apply reason more. I hardly consider www.divorcewizards.com a good
    place to get an unbiased perspective on divorce data. Unless you've got a reading comprehension
    problem, I fail to understand your claim that they conducted a study. Who did it? When was it
    done? Where is the data? Oh... I see, you don't know - and that's understandable, because it
    doesn't exist (for www.divorcewizards.com, that is). Could it be that www.divorcewizards.com
    want their clients to feel a bit more comfortable about going through a divorce? And you know
    what they say, misery loves company.

    I suggest you take a look at cdc.govdivorce.htm for some trustworthy
    data... and then draw your own conclusions. Of course, if you conclude that because the divorce
    rate (4.0 per thousand) is roughly
    47.6% of the marriage rate (8.4 per thousand), 47.6% of all married people will divorce, you'd
    be a bigger "Dumbass" (is that copyrighted or trademarked?) than I originally thought. I
    leave it as an exercise for you to identify the fallacy of such reasoning.

    Try again, Henry. But thanks for the laugh - you are entertaining. Then again, so are clowns.

    Try again, Scott. No serious demographer calculates the lifetime divorce probability as you did,
    so that was a bogus straw man argument. Since you cite data from the NCHS, perhaps you would trust
    their estimates. For various reasons, the NCHS no longer does projections of the divorce rate but
    the last time they did do them (about 10 years ago) they projected that unless (then) current
    trends changed, half of first marriages would end in divorce. Check out the CPR P23 reports from
    about 10 years ago if you don't believe me.

    Of course no serious demographer calculates the lifetime divorce probability as I mentioned - that's
    why I said if Henry thought it legitimate, he's a bigger Dumbass that I originally thought. And I
    left if for him as an exercise to identify the fallacy of the "straw man", as you've labeled it.

    Quoted message said:

    That projection, as well as all the projections I've seen since then, are based on synthetic
    cohort calculations, not cross-sectional ones. Nuptiality and marital dissolution are central
    topics in the study of family structure so researchers spend a lot of time calculating the
    probability of marital dissolution. The technique is really no more complicated than the one used
    for life tables, and insurance companies do that pretty routinely. Every projection I've seen (and
    I'm betting I've seen a lot more of them than you) gives estimates of the probability that first
    marriages in the US during the 1990's would end in divorce ranging from about 45% up to about 60%.

    I appreciate the fact that you've seen more projections than I have - and it really isn't hard to be
    the case. I have yet to find a single attributable projection that has been published (vice
    referenced by someone else). Admittedly, I haven't made a real effort to look for them (past the
    internet), but if you have some studies in mind, I'd certainly appreciate the references.

    I'm curious about one aspect of your statement that "the probability that first marriages in the US
    during the 1990's would end in divorce ranging from about 45% up to about 60%." How much of total
    marriages do the 1990 marriages represent?

    And in the same sense that we know the average lifespan of those that died last year (i.e. no
    projection is necessary), any projection that seeks to ":guess" the lifespan of those that were born
    yesterday is using very brown numbers. How can we possibly anticipate the lifespan of those born
    last year when they will be influenced by certain (but unknown) changes in medical care during the
    next 70 or so years?

    In all sincerity, if you have some links or references for me, I'd like to read them and they will
    be appreciated.

    Oh said:
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    Everyone who has had a divorce (more than 50% of our fellow citizens will eventually get one) has
    no credibility WRT to relationships.

    Which is a *far* cry from his most recent:

    Quoted message said:
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    Recent statistics suggest that 50% of all marriages will end in divorce.

    Maybe he's just being a "Smartass" by trying quietly change his claim.

    Scott-

  18. "Scott Raymond" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    "Robert Chung" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    Scott Raymond wrote:

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    Quoted message said:

    And in the same sense that we know the average lifespan of those that


    died

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    last year (i.e. no projection is necessary), any projection that seeks to ":guess" the lifespan of
    those that were born yesterday is using very


    brown

    Quoted message said:

    numbers. How can we possibly anticipate the lifespan of those born last year when they will be
    influenced by certain (but unknown) changes in medical care during the next 70 or so years?

    Not too difficult to understand if you consider that the figures are updated at least annually.

    Dashii

  19. "Khoomei" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    You obviously haven't been through a divorce.

    he was going through it before the tour ... and still won ... but had problems, it will help to have
    it behind him ...

    s boardnbike.comboardnbike.com

  20. "Robert Chung" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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    Well then, what proportion of marriages do you think will end in divorce or dissolution?

    I will WASTE my time responding to you ... but will not WASTE it calculating a prediction on divorce
    ... what does it matter, projections will not take into account the strengthening or dissolving of
    morals and commitment, one of the two will happen before it gets as bad as the projections thus
    changing the "projections" ... one way marriages will last the other they will NOT happen ... BTW,
    it's 4 anyway ...

    s

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