MohawkMike said:yah, here in Southern California I have to be alert to everything. Hit and run seems to be the thing to do around here, especially when they hit pedestrians or cyclists. March 2018 a black SUV made an illegal mid block u-turn in front of me but he couldn't clear the single lane so he stopped perpendicular as I was approaching at 15mph on my mountain bike. I hit my brakes but that bike is hydro brakes so when I hit the front brakes harder than my rear, I flipped over and landed face and belly first on the street just short of the car. Luckily a couple walking by was a nurse and her husband. I never saw the driver after the crash. All the witnesses told the cops that he hit me and took off, but I knew I stopped just short, so I told the truth. I think their perspectives looked different. As they were loading me into the ambulance, the cop told me I would be listed at fault for unsafe braking in a solo collision. He said had I hit the car, I would have been better off legally. I now ride even more alert because of that. At the time I was too concerned about the kidney in my belly to care so I told him not to take a report.
So great of Gina to donate, but yah, the way it used to be was crazy. My wife's cousin donated one of hers in 2000 and she said they cut a piece of her rib out to access the kidney and she has the same long scar Gina has. Her choice to donate inspired her daughter to be my donor in 2017.
Wow, scary story Mike! Yeah, the docs told Gina when she donated the biggest reason for losing the remaining kidney is an accident or gun shot. So I do what I can to protect her on the bike and other places. I know some forum members have said I should get Gina to race, she's stronger than most expect. But she doesn't care to race. Plus, if I talked her into racing and she lost the kidney in a crash, I'd be feeling pretty low.
But yes, I am also in SoCal and though I do not consider it a driver against cyclist or driver targeting cyclists type thing like too many bike forum members, I consider it an overpopulated stupid unaware driver and inconsiderate human being type thing.
Human decency is missing here in SoCal if you ask me.
Yeah, take care of the kidney Mike! I know 4 close people on dialysis and 2 recently passed.