The notion that Zwift group rides are just a front for speedsters to flaunt their digital accomplishments is a tad cynical, don't you think? Sure, there may be some of that element, but can't we find a middle ground between leisurely chat-fests and high-speed races?
I've noticed that some rides do manage to strike a balance, where conversation flows as freely as the virtual wind. The key seems to be in the ride's structure and the expectations set by the ride leader. Look for rides that explicitly state they're social and no drop, but also mention a steady, manageable pace. These rides often attract a mix of abilities, creating a more inclusive atmosphere.
As for identifying these rides, it's a bit of a trial and error process. Zwift's search function isn't perfect, so you might have to join a few to find one that suits your style. And don't be afraid to leave if it's not what you expected. After all, it's just a game, and the goal is to enjoy yourself.
So, to answer your question, yes, there is a genuine community aspect to be found in Zwift group rides, but it takes a bit of effort to find it. And remember, the 'pixelated peloton' is as diverse as the real one, so there's something for everyone if you look hard enough.